I hit the BMW X3 in front of me when I was trying to stop for a red light. Nothing serious – just my insurance premium will rise. The first thing came to my mind after the accident was what Edwin told me – the more you think of myself as a victim, the more likely that you’ll be victimized. I am lucky that I didn’t get myself killed. When I saw the dad, the driver of the BMW, touched his little girl’s hair, I felt so sad and helpless. I just wanted ot go home to be with my mom and dad. But I know I am not a little girl anymore. I have to be independent and strong, no matter how hard it is. The bottomline – I just can’t let one jerk ruin my life.